There is always an apprehension about taking on a submissive who has unrealistic or unreasonable expectations. You have to not only reset those expectations but make sure that the trust bestowed upon you, as a Dom/me, is never compromised.
There are some submissives that believe full control of their lives and livelihoods is an exciting and liberating. But it is, in reality, unhealthy. Over the past year, I have worked with a submissive that wanted to open his entire life to me and have me control it. While this may seem like a Dom/mes dream, it’s really not. You must be honest and ethical about what you will do to and for that submissive and breaking that trust may put that submissive in a position where not only will he never trust again but he will never develop as the submissive he or she wishes to be.
A Dom/me has a tremendous responsibility as a person because you can manipulate and distort a person’s emotions and tendencies in ways that aren’t healthy. It is incumbent on you to notice when a submissive’s desires cross from healthy indulgence into unreasonable or dangerous behavior. Taking advantage of this is never in the best interest of the Dom/me…or the submissive.