I have a submissive that provides services to me on a weekly basis. While helpful in many ways, it’s a challenge to me and I question the efficacy of his services when I’m forced to articulate every move that he makes. I ask for something to be done and instead of using judgement in accomplishing the task, he takes everything to such a literal extent that I have to spell out every step of the process.
It’s highly frustrating and I wonder if the submissive does this to evoke a response from me. Does he do this in order to gain more and more attention or is he truly in need of direction on a minute by minute basis? I’m always intrigued by this dynamic because I have other submissives who are motivated to take the initiative and do things before I ever ask them to.
How do I solve this problem? Do I punish him or do I ignore him? Do I limit his contact with me or do I make everything so simple that he can comprehend each step?
I’m always fascinated by the desires of a submissive and what motivates them to do certain things. While this particular submissive drives me to levels of frustration that I don’t frequently encounter, I’m still curious about what makes him tick and why he chooses to do the things he does.